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The Eighteen Convergent Patterns

15. Refusal to be the conversational centre, even where the medium invites it

He directs attention away from himself even in structures that would ordinarily direct it toward him. The refusal is of the position, not of the attention: the medium's invitation is declined rather than unnoticed.

The relational particulars through which this pattern first became visible remain private. This page stays with the form of the pattern and the interpretations it opens.

Read through the lenses

Ethical

Levinas’s other-priority structure.

Levinas

Levinas Care-ethics Hyde Murdoch

Sociological

Bourdieu’s refusal of dominance-display.

Bourdieu

Goffman Bourdieu Giddens Hochschild

Performative-dramaturgical

Counter-performance against ego-centering default.

Schechner Phelan Carlson Goffman

Discourse-analytic

Turn-yielding and floor-management.

Halliday Fairclough Wodak