6. Calibrated vulnerability — self-naming proportional to the container
Attachment-theory differentiation between secure-disclosure and anxious-overshare.
2. Psychological / attachment-and-self
Bowlby · Ainsworth · Winnicott · Kohut · Main
The readings follow the same through-line order used throughout the system, making it possible to compare what this lens changes from one idea to the next.
10. Endings that do not beg
Secure attachment’s capacity to close without abandonment-anger.
12. Receiving without escalating
Secure attachment receiving capacity.