Psychological / attachment-and-self
Attachment-theory differentiation between secure-disclosure and anxious-overshare.
The Eighteen Convergent Patterns
6. Calibrated vulnerability — self-naming proportional to the container
Vulnerability scales to the relational container. He assesses what kind of self-naming a given container can hold, and offers that much: the depth is a property of the relationship rather than a constant setting he runs everywhere.
The relational particulars through which this pattern first became visible remain private. This page stays with the form of the pattern and the interpretations it opens.
Read through the lenses
Ethical
Care ethics’ relational depth-calibration.
Cultural-anthropological
Turner’s liminal-trust requiring proportional containing.
Pedagogical-developmental
Vygotsky’s zone of proximal development applied to relational disclosure.